Tag Archives: effective networking

Effective Networking #19

Value yourself and network with people who value you too Networks are built on relationships.  Relationships that are mutually beneficial and have a foundation of trust and respect.  Do the relationships in your network feel like that?  Have you surrounded yourself with people who are prepared to contribute as much as you are?  Or do [...]

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Effective Networking #18

Under promise and over deliver. It’s all in the follow up so do it quickly. I received an email from a potential new client this morning, which said: “Thank you so much for following up so quickly.  I’m impressed! You really do what you talk about!!” I had sent her an email on my return [...]

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Top Credibility Builders #19

Say YES to something you don’t really want to do that matters to a friend Now more than ever, we seem to live in a “what’s in it for me?” society.  Whether it comes from the tough financial climate I can’t say. What I can say with conviction is that I am all the more impressed by [...]

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Effective Networking #17

Promote people in your network and you will build credibility in your network It can feel like a big ask: “When you become part of my network I expect you to talk about me with your contacts and make connections that will help my business. ”  Indeed, I’m not sure that we are ever that direct [...]

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Effective Networking #16

Make it personal.  If I don’t like you, I won’t create opportunities for you I meet a lot of people networking; some in person and some on-line.  I invest time in getting to know them, and build relationships with them if we seem to have common values and interests.  Oh – and if I LIKE [...]

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Top Credibility builders #17

Play the “you” game.  Everyone loves to talk about themselves, so get a reputation as a great listener When you feel isolated in your business, you look forward to networking as an opportunity to connect with others and share what is going on your world.  It is tempting to grab the opportunity and the centre-stage [...]

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Effective Networking #15

Explore new networking opportunities every couple of months and try new ones I had lunch with an good friend last week, someone I first met at a business networking evening on the Thames in 2007.  We were talking about the results we get from our networking activities and some of the amazing people we have got [...]

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Effective Networking #14

Keep in contact and keep it real. A mass email to everyone is not real contact Another one of those emails just arrived.  The ones where the subject line includes “constant contact” in the coded bit of the subject.  Nothing makes for a faster journey to my Trash.  I don’t want constant contact – I [...]

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Effective Networking #13

Building a trusted network requires effort and time. Allow at least 5 hours a week. In my experience there are a few key reasons why networking is not working for someone: 1) They don’t have any experience in this environment so are lacking skills, which can be learned. 2) They don’t have the right attitude; too [...]

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Effective Networking #12

Networking is not about selling. You will quickly be avoided if you sell yourself at events A colleague once told me about the time he was presenting at a large networking event where he asked for a show of hands from everyone who had come to the event to sell something – either themselves or their product.  “I [...]

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Top Credibility Builders #11

Go networking  and don’t take your business cards.  Accept cards from others and follow up the next day. I discovered this great method of creating credibility by accident.  Last year, I committed what I thought of as the “cardinal sin of networking” – I ran out of business cards.  I was due to speak at [...]

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Effective Networking #11

11) Be consistent with your effort.  Attend regularly if you want to build relationships “I left my networking group because I got nothing out of it”.  I have heard this many times.  My first question is usually “What did you expect to get?” swiftly followed by ”What did you put into it?” I usually find there [...]

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Effective Networking #10

Explore all the local Networks.  There are lots of options with different approaches. When anyone asks me which networking groups I recommend, I ask them the same question: “What do you hope to achieve?”  There is no “right” answer to this.  It is not a trick question – yet people look confused and often say [...]

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Effective Networking #9

Ask for a list of delegates attending an event and ask people “could you please introduce me to….” In the early days of my business networking, I often left an event feeling I had not met the right people.  This left me thinking I had selected the wrong events when in fact I had simply [...]

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Effective Networking #8

Behave like a host at every event and offer to introduce people to each other. In your role of Connector, you can build and strengthen your network by behaving like a host at every event.  Take a look around the room and see who is standing alone or just talking to friends and introduce them [...]

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Effective Networking #7

Diarise follow ups.  Otherwise you just collected business cards How often do you collect business cards at an event, take them home with all the best intentions and then simply leave them at the bottom of a bag?  Rob Brown, speaker and networking expert, shared a great story with me last year.  He told me [...]

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Effective Networking #6

Talk about your best contacts rather than yourself. Get a reputation as a connector. I was recently asked what I would like my legacy to be. “Simple” I replied “I want to look down on the people at my funeral and know that they all know each other because of me.”  Having a reputation as [...]

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Effective Networking #4

At a two-hour netowkring event aim to talk to 8 new people, each one for 10 minutes It is easy to feel overwhelmed at a Networking event, particularly when we have not planned in advance.  All too often, the evening is spent in the “safe” company of people we know rather than meeting new people.  Hardly [...]

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Effective Networking Tips #3

Set time in your diary every day to develop real relationships. We all like to think we have strong networks; groups of people we can depend on, trust, recommend.  We like to believe they are proactively promoting us and telling all their best contcacts about us at every opportunity.  Why would they? The answer is [...]

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Effective Networking Tips #2

Select networks your target clients join, not just your peers. I recently spoke to  the MD of a gas engineering and plumbing company who told me that networking had never worked for his team.  He told me how they had joined several trade groups and even BNI groups but had never had any significant referrals. [...]

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