Effective Change #5

In my fifth vlog in this series, I ask if you are setting yourself up to succeed in your change with some accountability

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I’m an entrepreneur not an age-group!

This is the first of my series of blogs by no-box-thinkers.   I have invited someone, each month, to write on a topic where they demonstrate that there are no limits – only those we impose ourselves.

Hannah Liversidge runs AmethystPA where she specialises in letting business owners focus on their business, by taking care of the day-to-day tasks for them.  Having worked in our family business from the age of 17, at 22 she is into her second year of her own, successful enterprise.  Here, Hannah shares her approach to her age and how it has impacted her business growth – and her own.

 

Hannah chooses not to put herself in a box

So, there I was, seventeen years old and I’m up at 5:30am to go to a networking meeting called BNI for my father’s roofing company. Who’d have thought anyone would be up at this time?! I pick up my 60 seconds as written the night before (luckily I typed it up as there were too many scribbles to be able to read it) and get onto my bicycle with my dress in my bag. I walk into a room with a large group of well-established, experienced business owners and I’m the youngest there! Phew, no pressure then! For three years of my membership I was the youngest member of BNI in my region and after overcoming my fears that people wouldn’t take me seriously, I was darn proud of it.

After four and half years of being a member for Reliable Roofer I took the plunge and started my business AmethystPA. Thanks to creating my credibility with these members I was able to have clients within two days of starting Amethyst, age was definitely not a factor there then!

After four months I decided to change my market which meant I had to leave the group I had become comfortable in and had grown to love. My next networking event wasn’t for two months and it was at an Athena group where, yet again, I was the youngest business owner there. Stepping into those “youngest here” shoes again was a little unnerving I must admit. Thankfully, overcoming those fears happened in a flash as I started chatting with like-minded business women.

Being labelled “young entrepreneur” can be a difficult label to take when you are concerned that young could be taken negatively. Turning up to networking meetings as the youngest business owner can be daunting, threatening and quite liberating too. After all my practice at BNI you’d think networking would be a doddle. The public speaking is fine, I don’t shake anymore which is great, it’s the getting into conversations that are my downfall: “What if they think I’m not credible?” or “Do I look like I could own my own business?” the worst thought, for me, was “I don’t look experienced enough”.

If you’re reading this and agreeing that these are regular thoughts going through your mind, whether it’s too young or too old, then you need to realise what an incredible benefit you have.

I have learnt that being young is my greatest asset in business. I run a business that focuses on skills in sectors that I have been brought up on such as E-newsletters and social media therefore my clients would expect me to be of a younger generation. People regularly greet me with questions about my business and what made me start so young, that they wish they’d have had the courage to do it at my age. What an uplifting way to start a conversation (on my side at least!) so why did age matter to me so much?

Having people around you that know you’re great at what you do and want you to have more business can help you to overcome your fears of age. If you tell someone that you think you’re not the right age for a certain event you’ll get an honest answer (which is usually “you’re being absolutely ridiculous, of course you’re the right age!”). You need to embrace your age and love where you are. If you are a young entrepreneur utilise it, ask experienced entrepreneurs how they got to where they are today, they’ll love helping you and they’ll help you by giving you the advice they wish they’d had at the start of their business. If you feel you are too experienced, then speak with people who are younger and take on board their advice. As a young entrepreneur who has been asked by more experienced business owners about my thoughts on a subject I was overwhelmed with the thought that they actually valued my opinion. That is how you’ll make the person you ask feel.

Overall, age is not a factor in business; it is an asset and a great way to learn. Never be scared to ask for help wherever possible and embrace your age, after all, we’re all in the same boat. We all took that step to freedom and entrepreneurship.

Hannah can be found on Twitter @AmethystPA
AmethystPA website and Hannah’s Un-natural Networker blog

 

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Effective Change #4

In the fourth vlog in my series on effective change, I talk about getting used to the feelings that change will bring  us.

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Effective Change #3

Are you taking one step at a time for effective, lasting change? My latest vlog in this series on effective change explores how to be consistent and successful in changing a habit that impacts change.

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Effective Change #2

Set out to change too many things at the same time and you are setting yourself up to fail.  In this video blog I share my success tips on effective change – starting with just one thing.

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That’s what friends are for

For the good times when we want to share and celebrate
For when we want to shout it from the roof tops
That’s what friends are for

For the bad times when we want to confide and be consoled
For when we want to run away and hide
That’s what friends are for

To share the joy, the laughter the good news and the dreams
To share the secrets, the exciting news, the proposal
That’s what friends are for

To share the fear, the pain and the terrible news
To share the tears, the devastating result, the anguish
That’s what friends are for

To keep in our thoughts and in our hearts
To keep beside us when we create our memories
That’s what friends are for

To keep supporting and challenging so they can fly
To keep trusting and loving so we can take the journey together
That’s what friends are for

 

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Effective Change #1

At the start of a new year, many of us are talking about change – changing habits, changing work patterns, changing goals – in this new series of video blogs, I share my thoughts and tips to help you achieve effective, lasting change.

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Judging by appearances

In a society where we are judging others less on appearances, we still judge ourselves on our own appearance and it impacts so many aspects of our lives. My latest video blog

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Who gets no-box-thinking?

Limitations and obstacles get in our way so often and rather like excuses many of them are down to our self-belief or lack of it.  They are influenced by our surroundings and associates and many are formed in early childhood and reinforced by our parents and friends.  I believe though that we all have the ability to challenge our limitations; that our circumstances do not prevent us from doing so but often empower us to do so.

Over the course of 2012, I have asked some real no-box-thinkers to write guest blogs for me.  I will be sharing them here, one every month.  These are people I respect and admire for their ability to see past limits and set out on journeys that are often difficult and challenging.  They approach situations with a mind-set that allows them to succeed and make real change.  They each have a story to tell and experience to share and I have asked each of them to share their no-box-thinking with us over the year.

I hope you will enjoy their approach and ideas and engage with them on the blog.  The first will be here in February.

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Thank you 2011

Looking forward to 2012

Has 2011 really come to an end already?  Strange how some months this past year seemed to fly by and others took what felt like an eternity to come to an end.  It was a year of highs and lows for me.  A year full of interesting lessons and opportunities.  A year that held amazing treasures and started the wonderful journey that is before me in 2012.

Friends, my heath, trust and self-confidence all played a key part in my 2011.  I learned so much from my existing friends and found some incredible new ones.  People have gone out of my life this year and new people have come in.  Twitter has opened up a whole new realm of possibilities and I have found deep and powerful friendships there that are changing my future.

I focussed more on my health in 2011 than I have consciously done before.  I learned from a wise, new friend, that focussing on my health can be a positive thing, not a negative one;  I am starting 2012 in much better physical shape and in far less pain than I started 2011.  I have learned from the experience that I have enormous ability – physical limitations are irrelevant as long as I accommodate them with kindness and respect for my body.  2012 will allow me to continue to love the skin I’m in and put it first.

Trust has been a major lesson from 2011 for me.  Learning to trust my own instincts and go with them.  A lesson I had seen in the past but not been ready to learn from.  I have allowed more people in and kept more people out as a result; the right people.  This was a tough lesson for me and I had to hear it several times.  I got it in time for 2012 and I start the year with people I trust around me.

Self confidence is not something people think I am lacking.  I have solid confidence in my abilities; I can talk, I can write, I can empower people to make real change, I’m good at what I do.  During 2011, thanks again to the amazing friends around me, I have developed a new type of confidence.  True inner confidence in me.  Dinah.  No job title, no label, no business card.  Dinah, the woman.  This new inner-strength and belief are truly liberating and exciting.  They are a new journey for me.  Taking me to a place where I feel  fabulous and joyful and delighted to be a woman.  A place where I feel ready to set new challenges for the year ahead.

Thank you 2011 for the gifts of the past year.  I will use what I have learned wisely and take it to my heart.  I welcome 2012 with excitement, joy, love, confidence and gratitude.

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